New Beginnings

The first Transition Ring was created in the middle of a sea of pain. I had gone through a divorce after a 28 year marriage. “So what’s next?” I asked myself.

I had to face the sorrow first and recognize the reality of what happened. I began to rediscover myself in the months of grief that ensued. Poetry became an outlet for my emotions. As I process my thoughts, I receive hope. Moving on is important to me. I can’t keep looking back.

God showed me he had many things for me to do. I can step out. I can trust.

My precious wedding ring was gone and my hands were bare. I decided to design a ring with a sailboat emblem. I wear it every day. It provides encouragement and the reminder of my commitment to God and His love for me. It also is a beautiful symbol about moving forward as the wind of God’s Spirit gently guides me.

I also designed a “band-aid” ring that I wear on my left pinkie. I call it “God’s Kiss” It reminds me that pain is a part of life and I need to accept the emotions that come with it. I may take it off some day.

My rings have become a conversation piece. When people ask me how I am doing, I like to share my sailboat message with them. Acceptance comes as I talk about it.

There are ten symbols. Different ones fit different situations and personalities. My hope is that a Transition Ring will be more than just a ring but a sign of hope every single time it is worn.

My philosophy:
I am who I am. Successes are mine. Mistakes are mine. The personality I was given is mine. Life situations are mine to face and embrace. I can move ahead in confidence, not because I am perfect, but because I belong to God. He made me. He loves me. He is with me. Now, I can live life loving others.